When you start considering WHAT instead of WHY – magic may just start happening for you…
You may have heard the idea that we choose our own experiences in life.
Sometimes, this can be a hard pill ? to swallow.
So much so, I hear people say ‘but why would I choose this painful/ challenging experience?!’ ?♀️
I’d like to give a different perspective and angle to take on this if I may….
The next time you hear yourself asking ‘why is this happening to me again’ or why me?’ ?♀️
I’d like you to consider this instead:
‘What in this experience am I attached/ attracted to?’ ⁉️
Usually when something we consider ‘bad’ is happening to us, it’s very easy to take all that experience as a whole.
But in my experience, there tends to be an aspect of that experience that we are subconsciously attracted to.
And on a deep level, you are tuned into the vibration of this energy and on a physical level manifesting it, because that is what we do – creating our own experience.
For example, it could be:
✨ the ‘challenge’ it brings
✨ the diversity it brings to your life
✨ or the fact that subconsciously you see it as an opportunity to prove your self worth.
The list goes on.
These desires are usually so well hidden in our subconscious and most times deeply rooted in our past experiences like childhood trauma, heart break, etc.
Taking an outside perspective and pinpointing the aspect of the experience you are attracted to, helps you take this next step.
How can I experience this same deep level desire without xxx xxx or by xxxx xxx (insert any of your painful cycles). ?
This is the moment you become a conscious creator – experiencing more meaningful and soul fulfilling experience. ?
Because, when we can back our desires with deep emotion, we easily manifest them.
This is a powerful and life changing practice you can start today. ?
So m’lady, what circles are you repeating right now that you’d like to release/change?
Could you pinpoint what attracts you to these same pattern you keep repeating?
Do share your experiences ✨